Okay, so haven't gotten IOIs from this girl lately, in fact, you're getting many SODs. You're pretty sure you don't have game here. But (sigh) you "like" her (how AFC!). You liked her last year too when you
were highly AFC and messed it up. Now she avoids you. The point is: you like her but are pretty sure you can't game her. Is it okay to be AFC, fess up, get it over with just for your piece-of-mind? You guys will probably say the element of liking someone in the first place makes this post unfit for this community. Maybe. (Keep in mind the liking developed in AFC days).